A couple who love nothing more than going on a ‘spicy’ cruise have swapped the open seas for a beachside resort, rocking up to an all inclusive hotel made for swingers.

TikTokers Bella and Jase share content on their 4ourplay.com as well as other social media channels, documenting their life as an open married couple trying to ‘break the stigma of ethical non-monogamy‘.

Loving nothing more than a spicy cruise where couples can share sexual partners, it is not the only kind of holiday on offer for those looking to get to know people outside of their relationship or marriage.

Jase and Bella partake in ‘ethical non-monogamy’ (YouTube / 4OURPLAYofficial)

Setting their sights on Mexico, the couple headed to Desire Riviera Maya to the south of Cancun. A couples-only resort, the hotel has said it will fulfil ‘every desire no matter how mild or wild’.

Prices vary depending on when you book, but rooms tend to be between $200-$500 per person, per night.

On offer are activities such as ‘spicy pool parties’ as well as clothes-free areas where you can bare all.

And just like on Temptation Cruises, there is a play room and a ‘sin room’.

Ultimately it is a safe space for adults who want to meet to do just that.

Showing off the itinerary for the first day on their YouTube channel, Bella and Jase showed off the day’s activities starting with a ‘stretching’ class advertised at 10am, followed by ‘mischievous games’ at 11.

Bella and Jase are non-monogamous (TikTok/@4ourplay.com)

Other activities in the day were more like what you might see at an all inclusive, with beach volleyball and water volleyball planned alongside pool fitness and dance classes.

But the adult fun continued later with a ‘playtime at the jacuzzi’ session in the afternoon, followed by a ‘sexy performance’ to end the evening.

Speaking later on in the day, Jase revealed they went to see the foam party which they could not record for obvious reasons.

“We went down to the foam party and it was fun, the foam parties are always fun they just you know blow foam everywhere,” he said.

Bella added: “It was super sunny, everyone was having an amazing time they had inflatable beach balls and really big floaties to sit on, that was really fun.

“Then after that we went to the beach and we swam in the beach without any clothes on which I love. I feel so one with nature, it feels so amazing and free to be nude on the beach and in the ocean.”

A swim-up bar in the resort pool (YouTube / 4OURPLAYofficial)

She said the resort was that big it felt like no one else was with them on the beach, giving it a sense of exclusivity.

Getting ready for their first night out mixing with others and getting to know them, the two got ready for their ‘Angels and Devils’ theme night, with Jase donning a robe for the video as he ‘had not a lot on’ underneath.

“I also cannot really show everything on this platform… we’re both devils tonight,” Bella said.

“We’re about to head over to the disco. They call it the disco but it is really a nightclub. We haven’t seen it yet because it is brand new, there’s a live band playing and a fashion show.

“It’s kind of like a Victoria’s Secret fashion show with big wings on. They literally do look like models, it’s going to be so fun to watch that.”

They revealed that the days are organised by people called ‘playmakers’, who are hosts with a job to make guests’ stays fun and memorable.

Other parts of the resort are what you would expect on any all inclusive holiday. We’re talking luxurious restaurants, fancy cocktails, and an element of exclusivity.

A intimacy coach and hypnotherapist has revealed what it is like on board a ‘spicy’ cruise before everything becomes far too non-PG to film.

A very different kind of cruise ship holiday, the term ‘spicy cruise‘ is often used to describe adventures at sea where you share your romantic partner with others – and vice versa.

They are, for obvious reasons, a rather unique take on cruising – with the vessels themselves totally taken over and given a very different look to what you might usually come across.

As with any cruise, there are specific rules you must follow, but given the amount of trust being placed in complete strangers, you could argue following them is more important than ever.

Over on TikTok, intimacy coach and hypnotherapist Kate Shelor has gone viral for giving folks a sneak peek on board the swinging cruise holidays, run by Cancun-based company Temptation Cruises.

Captioning her video – which fittingly has Missy Elliott’s ‘Get Ur Freak On’ playing over the top – that has been viewed more than eight million times, Kate wrote: “The ADULT CRUISE is about to get WILD.”

Kate then shows viewers around a main lobby area of the cruise ship.

Kate Shelor on the spicy cruise (TikTok/@kateshelor3)

And instead of your standard table and chairs set up, we find mattress after mattress laid out on the floor. There are chairs too, but they’re pushed to the sides of the lobby area.

There is a mixture of circular mattresses in a central area of the deck, with your standard double bed mattresses found in rows near the massive windows on the side of the ship.

Over on the official Temptation Cruises website, these areas are described as ‘playrooms’, so we’ll let your imagination do the rest when it comes to the hobbies people are getting up to here.

Kate’s footage of the playrooms then comes to an end – with one of the most important rules for those heading on a spicy cruise focusing on photography.

The caption says it all (TikTok/@kateshelor3)

Temptation explains that ‘some guests may want to keep their identities private’.

“Due to the unique concept of our resort, we ask that when taking photos and / or video, you only do selfies and close-ups for personal use, no wide angles,” the holiday provider says.

Respect is at the heart of the holidays, Temptation says, which have become a safe space for people who enjoy an open relationship lifestyle.

Another rule on the playrooms is that they have drapes in the window areas, with explicit activities between guests not allowed in any of the public areas of the ship.

People know where to go on the ship to get what they want when they want it -just not when you’re tucking in to a croissant and flat white in the dining area.

Exactly what goes down on a ‘spicy cruise’ where couples are known for sharing their partners has been revealed by one of its passengers.

Somewhat different to a standard cruise ship holiday, a ‘spicy cruise’ is an adults-only holiday where there is a big focus on swinging. For those who don’t know what we’re on about, this is where you and your romantic partner have intimate encounters with others.

Temptation Cruises is one of the most popular companies offering these kind of cruising holidays, with ships completely taken over and areas of the vessels given a very different look.

But it’s not all just sex with strangers, with intimacy coach and hypnotherapist Kate Shelor taking to Instagram to reveal what it is like to actually go on these kind of holidays.

Kate has often taken to social media to post updates about spicy cruises, even showing us what the playrooms look like with mattresses scattered across the floor.

The cruises – which can be somewhat affordable – come with their own specific rules when it comes to sexual activity.

“I’ve been getting a lot of comments about the cruise that I’m on, the Temptation adults only cruise, where people are sort of like – ‘just admit its a swingers cruise’,” Kate says.

Kate took to Instagram to explain the reality of a spicy cruise (Instagram/kateshelor)

How many are there for you know what

Kate says: “I’m not being coy. I talk about swinging all the time, so I’m not trying to be funny about it. It’s just not specifically a swingers event.

“There’s maybe 50/50 on the ship, maybe about half or so. But it’s also just like an adult, sexy atmosphere.

“So there’s plenty of people on board who are just enjoying their time with their partner because there’s places you could be topless. There’s fun workshops. There’s crazy games.”

Other activities

Kate says: “If you’ve ever been on a cruise ship they’ll have like a more adult friendly game usually with the whole crowd where you’re, like, running down and people taking their bras off and they’re, like, dressing a guy.

“This sounds crazy if you haven’t been to one, but it’s like there’s stuff like that.

There’s a woman named Jen Porter. She plays piano and she’s so talented.

“And she does dirty songs, and she’s hilarious and fantastic. There’s lots of dance parties. There’s theme nights.”

Where the magic happens. (Facebook/Temptation Cruises)

Inclusivity is key

“Yes there’s swingers but it’s not a swingers only event,” Katy says.

“It is not hosted by a swingers-only group. And the only reason I’m telling people that it’s not a swingers event is that there’s non-swingers here too.

“So it’s like if you wanna come on this cruise and you’re not a swinger, that’s fine.

“You’re gonna meet other people that are also not swingers but there’s a commonality on the ship which is like, wanting to be free and have like a sexy time with your partner, a sexy vacation, and that’s what it is.

“So I’m not trying to be like, ‘oh, it’s not a swingers event. I’m afraid to say it’s a swingers event’. That’s like, I’m not. I talk about it all the time. I’m just kinda letting people know what it really is.”

Kate says: “It’s a mix and it is not billed as a swingers event but it does attract people who are in the lifestyle because it’s there, you can be topless and it’s sexy and it’s adults only and it’s a very open atmosphere here.

“So that’s why it attracts swingers but it also attracts people that are not and it just kind of want a happy sexy vacation with adults where they can be a little bit free, a little bit wild, and go dancing and dress up in costumes sometimes. And, you know, because sometimes that’s good for your relationship.”

The full cost breakdown of how much it’ll set you back to go on a ‘spicy’ cruise has been revealed – and it might shock you.

Thousands of people every year head on to the open seas with Temptation Cruises. Unlike almost every other cruise ship in the world, Temptation has a very different offer on the cards.

Dubbed ‘spicy’ cruises by those who partake, they are safe spaces for those in open relationships to share sexual partners.

They’re a little different to mainstream cruises. Instead of open lobby areas and seating areas overlooking glass walls, you’ll find rows and rows of mattresses ready for communal fun. Dubbed playrooms, they are, for obvious reasons, one of the highlights of the trip for those heading on board.

As with any cruise ship, there is a price to pay, and it’s not cheap, even at the lower end of the pricing structure.

But in saying that, some might be shocked at how affordable it might appear, if you’re clued up on how much cruise holidays set you back.

The next Temptation Cruise holiday sets sail on 24 February next year until 1 March, calling a Miami, Ocho Rios, and Great Stirrup Cay before heading back to Miami.

Where the magic happens. (Facebook/Temptation Cruises)

It is advertised as a launch rate of $198 per person, per night. But let’s do a deep dive.

The most expensive package is for the Haven Garden Three Bedroom Villa, which costs $30,000 and has enough room for six guests.

This is followed closely by the Haven Deluxe Owners, costing $24,000 for three people.

To flip the list, an Interior Stateroom on decks four or five costs $2,150 for a maximum of two people. You can reserve it for $1,975 right now, which works out at $197.50 a night, per head.

One of the few PG areas onboard. (Facebook/Temptation Cruises)

Here is the full list:

• Haven Garden 3 Bedroom Villa: $30,000, sleeps six
• Haven Deluxe Owners: $24,000, sleeps three
• Haven Owners: $14,500, sleeps three
• Haven Villa: $14,000, sleeps three
• Haven Courtyard Villa with Studio: $12,800, sleeps four
• Haven Courtyard Penthouse: $10,700, sleeps three
• Penthouse with Studio Deck 11: $9,200, sleeps three
• Luxury Penthouse Deck 9 and 10: $7,750, sleeps three
• Penthouse Deck 8, 9 and 10: $7,400, sleeps three
• Club Balcony: $4,800, sleeps three
• Deluxe Veranda Stateroom Deck 10: $4,250, sleeps three
• Veranda Stateroom Deck 8 and 9: $4,000, sleeps three
• Ocean View Stateroom: $3,200, sleeps two
• Ocean View Stateroom Porthole: $2,650, sleeps two
• Ocean View Stateroom (Obstructed view): $2,650, sleeps two
• Interior Stateroom: $2,450, sleeps two
• Interior Stateroom Deck 4 and 5: $2,150, sleeps two

Something sweet to have after your buffet meals. (Facebook/Temptation Cruises)

One of the best perks with the Temptation Cruise is that bookings come with the Unlimited Open Bar beverage package as well as seven inclusive dining facilities.

The package includes a huge range of gins, vodka, whisky, brandy, rum, tequila, liqueurs, wine and beer. And there are 16 bars dotted across the cruise ship, so at least the drinks package conundrum that standard cruisers face is sorted on the house for you.

The price also includes tips in advance for the staff working on the cruise, so you really don’t need to worry about much else.